Eric’s Recovery
Jennie Fragale
Summer in Italy
is beautiful. The sun is always shining
and the temperature is always hot.
Wherever you look, there is breath taking architecture. Sea men go boating on their days off and
party. There is never a dull moment.
One
day, my cousin Eric, who is a seaman in the Navy, was out with his
friends. Eric was stationed in Naples,
Italy. They were all having fun outside
in the summer evening. Eric saw an old
wall that came twenty feet off of the ground.
He decided to walk across the narrow edge. Eric did not make it far on the wall before
he fell to the ground from twenty feet.
My
mom, dad, cousin Malarie, Sarah, Bobbi, Sophie, Aunt Annette, Aunt Nancy, Uncle
Pete, and I were all at Chautauqua Lake for the weekend when Eric had
fallen. We had just ended a fun day of
boating and partying when my Aunt Annette, Eric’s mom, received the horrible
news.
The
hospital where Eric was, called and advised my Aunt Annette and Eric’s two
sisters, Malarie and Sarah, to fly to Italy immediately because Eric’s
condition was not good. The doctors did
not think that Eric was going to survive through all of the trauma.
We
packed up our luggage and left the lake to get my Aunt Annette and my two
cousins home. They needed to prepare for
their flights.
At
this point, we only knew so much. We
knew that Eric fell twenty feet off of a wall and that he was in a coma. The doctors also said that he had severe
brain damage, a broken arm, and a broken cheek bone.
Although
Eric was severely hurt and had a slim chance of waking up, my entire family had
a hard time believing that our crazy Eric could not bounce back. It all seemed liked it was just a bad dream
that we could not wake up from.
Once
my aunt and Malarie arrived in Italy, they were trying to stabilize Eric to
transfer him to a better hospital in Germany.
We were informed that the brain damage was in the white and grey matter
and also in the brain stem. That was
horrible news for everyone. We knew his
condition was bad, but we did not know how bad it actually was.
After
they stabilized Eric, they sent him to Germany where Sarah then met up with her
mom and sister. The doctors had sedated
Eric in-case he were to wake up. They
wanted to keep him in a coma in order to keep his brain healing itself as much
as possible.
Eric
spent about two weeks in Germany. While
he was there, we were told that the chances of him waking up were very
slim. The doctors also told us that even
if he were to wake up, he would only be able to function at a three-year-old
level. They said he would not ever be
the same because of the amount of brain damage.
Once
Eric was stable enough to make the long flight from Germany to the United
States, they transferred him. Eric was
transferred to a military hospital in Bethesda, Maryland. The hospital is called Walter Reed Military
Medical Center. My mom, dad, my brother,
Michael, and I went to Maryland to see Eric soon after they arrived. It had not even been a month since the
accident.
We
arrived at the hospital in the late evening.
My Aunt Annette met us in the lobby and she had some great news. My aunt told us that for the first time, Eric
had his eyes open and was sitting upright.
She also told us that he was responding to his name a little bit.
We
went upstairs and Eric was sitting up in a chair. We were all overwhelmed with emotions for
multiple reasons. He had just started to
sit up right before we arrived. I could
not help but feel that he knew we were coming and did not want us to see him
helpless in bed.
When
Eric saw my dad, his face lit up. Eric
had a ball and took turns throwing it at all of us. It was a huge break through for Eric
considering he was not even supposed to wake up. I asked Eric if he knew who I was and he
nodded yes. We asked him that same
question about everyone in the room and he nodded yes to everyone. It was unbelievable because of the damage
that his memory center had gone through.
Eric’s
energy did not last long. He started
dozing off and the nurses put him back to bed.
We went to dinner then settled into our hotel for the night. We were very anxious and excited for the
morning’s visit with Eric.
The
following morning, afternoon, and evening, Eric did not do much of anything
except sleep. The nurses explained that
he had tired himself out the night before.
Luckily, we were staying for a couple of days. We hoped that we would see some improvements
during our visit.
The
following day, nurses came into Eric’s room and suggested that he start
physical therapy. We woke Eric up and
put him into a wheel chair. When Eric
realized that we were going somewhere other than his hospital room, he just
kept smiling.
Eric
did really well at physical therapy. You
could tell that he kind of thought it was dumb.
They practiced his motor skills with a small ball and practiced standing
and walking. Eric got the hang of it
real quick and stood up on his own. When
he stood up, his feeding tube got pulled out of his stomach. This was really bad because you cannot keep
inserting a feeding tube through the same spot in the stomach. It causes many problems.
The
doctors discussed Eric being transferred to a rehab center in Richmond,
Virginia but it would not be for a week or so.
We had to leave right when Eric was going into surgery for his feeding
tube. I was upset to leave because I
wanted to keep watching Eric improve. In
just a few days, Eric had shown so much improvement. It was a miracle that he was alive let alone
walking and improving.
Shortly
after we got home, Malarie called to tell us that Eric had started to
talk. We knew it was going to take Eric
a long time to fully recover, but we believed that he would. He was doing so well within a short period of
time. It was amazing.
A
week later, Eric was transferred to Richmond.
He was walking, talking, and functioning. He was not one-hundred percent by any means
or back to his normal self but it was better than nothing.
Weeks
passed and we were all back in school.
My aunt and my cousin, Malarie, took off of school and work to help Eric
improve and heal. He was in multiple
physical therapy sessions everyday for not only his motor skills but also his
memory.
It
was almost my birthday and I wanted to spend it in Richmond with Eric and my
family. I went with my Aunt Nancy, Uncle
Pete, my three cousins, Sarah, Bobbi, and Sophie. When I first saw Eric, he hugged me and told
me happy birthday. He looked tired but
it was amazing how alert he was. We were
told he would never be able to function past a three-year-old level.
To
this day, Eric still has therapy sessions for his memory. He has made amazing progress in the almost
two years since his accident. He is
still in the Navy and is currently stationed in Bethesda, Maryland. Eric is able to drive himself home on
weekends to visit. We never gave up
believing that Eric would fully recover but it still amazes everyone that he is
functioning as a normal person after all of the trauma. Eric shocked not only our family but also the
entire community. I admire Eric very
much because through all of the challenging obstacles, he never gave up.
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